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CHAPTER 5: THE APPROACH
In this chapter we will discuss where to meet men and the various ways to catch the eye of perspective prey. We’ll cover the basics of how to subtly flirt with him across a room, to how to carry yourself as you walk in his direction, to the ultimate goal: asking him out!
Some men will be easier prey than others. We live in a media-driven society, and just as we battle our own physical shortcomings, men have pressure on them, too–to accqire a trophy woman. Just as we get the message that we’re suppose to look Pamella Anderson Lee, your average guy gets the message that having a hot babe who looks like silicone Pam falling all over him will make them look like a stud.
Some of these guys are hopeless cases–they wouldn’t be caught dead with a bigger woman. And I find that kind of a relief, you know? My skinny friends always seem to end up with guys who are obsessed with women’s bodies. Who needs that? I think women obsess enough about their bodies as is. We don’t need any help, thank you very much.
Other guys genuinely like big women or have found themselves attracted to a bigger woman in the past but lacked the cajones to do anything about it. The first step in helping him overcome his insecurity is this: As a big woman, nine out of ten you’ll have to make the first move. Read on and I’ll show you how to tune in your approach-mode radar to weed out the wrong guys and help you pull in a winner….